The problem of the salvation of abusers and oppressors

From Michelle: I was already asking questions about Hell and who goes there when I watched the movie Hellbound. Even so, I experienced such a paradigm shift that when people asked me about the movie I couldn't even put it into words for a few day. It was very well done. My question is "What do you say to a person who has experienced horrible evil from the hands of another person (such as: abuse, rape, war, etc.) when they find out you believe that his/her tormentor will be reconciled to God and not suffer eternal punishment?"